One of the most negative and counterproductive questions that exists is the question of “what difference will it make?”  It is often posed not as a question but rather as a statement to justify inactivity.

Aside from the fact that the very nature of the question pre-supposes a negative outcome, as well as a certain amount of skill as a fortune teller, it is the wrong way to make decisions.

If you are given the opportunity to volunteer or advocate or help someone in need, there are better questions that you can ask of yourself.  If you are given a chance to learn a new skill, even if it means taking some risks and/or adding to the workload of any already busy schedule, there are better questions that you can ask of yourself.

When faced with a decision that may lead to asking what difference it will make, consider asking one of these questions first:  Does the idea have integrity?  Will I grow as a person if I give it a try? Do I have unique skills to contribute to this activity? Is there a downside – other than the fact that my involvement might not make a difference that I am able to predict?

Lots of great ideas have been born and lots of lives of others have been influenced and lots of personal accomplishments have been achieved because people went ahead and acted – even without being certain that a difference would be made.

Acting without thinking is not a great way to behave, but not acting because of overthinking is even worse – because it robs you and the rest of the world of special qualities that you can develop and/or share with others.

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