Each holiday exists for a purpose That purpose may be to celebrate the birth of a famous leader or contributor to uniqueness of the planet. It may be to honor heroes or workers. It may be to mark a seasonal milestone such as the harvest or the beginning of a new year. Valentine’s Day has…
As we make our imperfect journey through life as human beings, most of us try our best most of the time. Even so, we make mistakes. Some mistakes can be huge. Fortunately, most of the mistakes that we make tend to be small and not of great consequence to the well-being of ourselves or others. …
It seems to be a rite of passage for many teenagers to deny the existence of other generations. Many teens want nothing to do with their parents, are embarrassed to be with their siblings (older or younger), are immune to the influence of teachers, and are willing to do almost anything to not be different…
Thomas Edison was a real quote machine in his time. Among his more memorable quotes are: “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” “Negative results are just what I want. They’re just as valuable to me as positive results. I can never find the thing that does the job best…
Let me get the ball rolling by expressing my gratitude. Although I’m certain that I’ve implied it in my newsletters to those of you who have signed up for membership in The Mental Health Gym, I don’t know that I’ve specifically stated my thanks and appreciation. I’m really thankful to those of you who have…
There is something crazy about taking a time of joy and turning it into a time of stress. Yet, that’s what many people do. Holiday stress can stem from financial, physical, social, and family overload. There is an important principle to keep in mind at a time like this; the more that you are in…
By definition, depression is not a fun emotion to be experiencing. There are different levels of depression ranging from a baseline level of unhappiness to a temporary reactive depression when something lousy happens to major depression marked by despondency, hopelessness, and possibly suicidal thinking. Depression may involve biochemical and/or environmental factors. It would be an…
Those of us who live in the United States celebrate Thanksgiving this week. Although I believe that the U.S. and Canada are among the few nations that have a holiday with that official name, many other countries and cultures have similar celebrations – often times to give thanks for a bountiful harvest. If a holiday…
Brainstorming is a technique that is widely used in the corporate world BECAUSE IT WORKS. Encouraging meeting participants to offer their ideas and solutions in an unrestrained atmosphere often produces more creative ideas than would be the case when people sensor themselves for fear of being perceived as silly, stupid, or absurd. Yet Albert Einstein,…
One of the questions that I routinely ask new therapy patients is, “What do you do for fun?” Some are able to answer in a positive manner without hesitation. Others, however, treat it like a trick question – and an uncomfortable trick question at that. I get all kinds of uncomfortable responses from various patients:…
If you are not going out by yourself, there are two reasons why you out to dinner, a movie, or another event. Obviously one of the reasons is to enjoy the activity. The other is to enjoy the time that you are spend with your spouse, partner, friend, date, or other couple(s). Too often, however,…